Archive for September, 2006

Just Sharing Some E-Books I Got For Free

Thursday, September 21st, 2006

I just got copies of e-books with below titles. They were sent to me by Beverly Sace-Gutierrez, a blogger entrepeneur whom I met in the Entrep forums. She’s sending these e-books for free as a gesture of friendship in the forum. :) Images_tagr_6

1. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill 

2. A Message to Garcia by Elbert Hubbard
3. Acres of Diamonds by Russel Conwell
4. As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
5. Scientific Advertising by Claude Hopkins
6. The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles
7. The Way to Wealth by Benjamin Franklin

If you want a copy of the e-books, just send me an e-mail at melynnium_y2k@yahoo.com.

Might as well wanna check out Beverly’s blog, http://thelearningentrepreneur.blogspot.com/.

Sabi nga sa isang Lucky Me ad, share your blessings. :)

Hmm.. Biglang humaba ang reading list ko.. Hehehe.. :p

On Radios, MTVs and Unrequited Love

Tuesday, September 19th, 2006

Sitticafe_bossaI’m currently listening to Sitti’s Album, Cafe Bossa and Bamboo’s Light, Peace, Love. These albums were brought home by Jonjon last night. Been trying to download Sitti’s songs in mirc. Isa lang yung nakalusot, yung "Hey Look at the Sun". Kaya Jonjon bought a copy of the original CD na lang.
Bamboo was his pick.

While listening to Bamboo and searching and reading the lyrics on the net, I suddenly remembered what Jim Paredes said about Songwriting in the show Pinoy Dream Academy.

Most songs. hit songs at that, are all about unrequited love. That recounts for 95% of songs you hear in the radio and see on music videos. Kaya pala, when I was still single, I used to listen to the radio and watch MTV. Hahaha…

Now that I am married, I hardly listen to the radio anymore. When I got pregnant with CJ, it was Mozart that I was listening to. Even after I gave birth, Mozart still. Mozart was mine and CJ’s bedtime music. Our pediatrician told us that classical music helps in the development of the baby inside a mother’s womb. I cannot agree more. CJ is a very intelligent kid.

When I tune in to the radio now, I go to 105.1 FM Crossover. I used to listen to 99.5 RT, i still do sometimes. Now, I like listening to Smooth Jazz, Chill and Soul. It’s more relaxing. Parang ngayon, I am more comfortable listening to music in instrumental format, without the dragging lyrics. Could this be one of love’s effect on me? Just loving the feeling and taking it easy. :) Sometimes, I am thinking, could this make me old kasi hindi na ako updated sa kung anong hit na kanta ngayon? Hehehe…

BamboolightpeaceloveBut I got kinda touched with some of Bamboo’s songs in Light, Peace, Love Album. Like "I-You", "Dinner at 6" and "Truth". These songs remind me of my old sentimental self. The feeling is kinda bittersweet and nostalgic. But what reigns, is the feeling of peace, happiness and love that is right here with me, in the arms of the person who loves me and who I love, Jonjon. The happiness that I have found would not have been any good if I didn’t tasted sadness or pain. That is, appreciate whatever state you are in.

I guess, Jim Paredes is right. Listening to the radio and watching MTV, I think no more.

Series Cut

Wednesday, September 13th, 2006

Again, this morning, a guy from a different chain of hotel, Puerto Del Sol, called me saying that I won a 3D/2N accomodation for 2 adults. It’s another one of those coupons I filled out in the PTM last Saturday. Hmm.. This must be some crazy luck. Hehehe… The guy on the other line is telling me, I will draw from among the other chains of their hotel in Boracay, Bolinao in Pangasinan, Australia and China and I will get the free accomodation.  The thing I noticed however was that, this guy from Puerto Del Sol and the girl I talked to regarding Days Hotel almost have the same pitch.  That I won a 3D/2N accomodation and that I have to bring my husband with me and that there will be a 90-minute presentation. The difference is that this guy from Puerto Del Sol, told me the catch early on. He told me what to expect. Well, that they will be offering to us Club Membership. But he guaranteed me that we need not buy it and that we will still be given our freebies.

Now, I am starting to think. Could this be the same with the Days Hotel free item? The answer is yes. After getting to Vacation Club International’s office, Days Hotel’s marketing arm, Jonjon and I were asked whether we could pay this huge membership fee. The answer is simple: No. We have other priorities right now. Our presentor was a very pleasing kind lady. Good thing she asked us that question early on so we wouldn’t be wasting both our times.

Then the drawing came… Tantararan.. Tantantantan… The location we got was Bahia de Bais in Bais, Negros Oriental. The town is north of Dumaguete. Tsktsk.. The other options were Subic, Tagaytay and Batangas City. The least I preferred was Bais. But probably, I’ll take this opportunity to visit some more places in the Philippines. :) Besides, I should practice what I preach. Hehehe…

Next stop: Get the Puerto Del Sol Freebie.

:p

From Crying to Loving

Tuesday, September 12th, 2006

Before I lay my back to sleep, after checking, replying, composing all the emails, adding highschool schoolmates in friendster, checking out the Entrepreneur forum, I have to write this blog entry.. Hehehe…

Well, early this afternoon, I went downstairs to go to the bathroom. While I was emptying my bladder, I heard little CJ cry. I was kinda alarmed with her wailing as I remembered she was just there in the living room busy, accompanied by her Yaya Jenelyn and the neighbor’s househelp Leah, watching Wowowee and playing with her toys. When I got out of the bathroom, I asked Jenelyn why the baby was crying. She told me that CJ cried because she saw Willie crying while hugging a 3 year old boy in Las Vegas. Willie first sang "Unang Pasko" with all the lights dimmed in the Las Vegas venue. Then a 3 year old boy came in front and approached Willie handing him green money. Willie  reached out for the boy’s hand and hugged him to tears. I guess, Willie felt for the song because he might not be spending their first Christmas together with his wife. It is being rumored that Willie and wife Liza are separated.

Maybe, my baby CJ probably got carried away by the crying scene. Her sobbing turned to crying then to weeping and wailing. While CJ was there crying, Jenelyn, Leah and I couldn’t stop ourselves from laughing. My daughter… Oh my baby… I was having mixed emotions then. I pity my child coz her face turned red and red spots apprear in her forehead. It’s a sign that she’s really upset. She’s first had these spots when her Lolo Popoy joked her, saying, "Gusto mo Palo!". She was just 5 months old then but very sensitive at that very young age. I was also laughing because I couldn’t believe that my baby would make a big deal out of Willie. Maybe she understands what’s happening. She’s been watching Wowowee almost everyday since she’s learned to watch TV. She sees Willie making people happy everyday but now, she’s bothered with Willie’s unlikely sad and gloomy expression. She kept on crying althroughout the program’s ad spiel. Her cry got louder when she saw Willie again on TV, now on the regular program, as they prepare for the Bayong game. The Unang Pasko video clip actually came in late. The Las Vegas show was featured last Saturday, Sept. 9 here in Manila.

CJ’s probably got her sensitivity to her daddy. Jonjon recalls that when he was 3 years old, he suddenly cries whenever he hears the Rock-A-Bye Baby Song especially in the part, "when the bough breaks the cradle will fall and down will come baby, cradle and all". I don’t remember me crying over a song when I was a kid. But yes, i realized, the Rock-A-Bye Baby song is violent. Jonjon would disagree about CJ’s attributing her sensitivity from him. Jonjon jokes me, mas sensitive daw ako kaysa sa kanya. :)

CJ, however irky she may be, is very easy to pacify. When she gets her shots from the pediatrician, she just cries a big bit but then we can easily distract her with a toy or an action song, If You’re Happy and You Know It. I could remember, she was just one day old when her sole was punctured
by the nurse to get blood samples for the congenital screening test.
There was just a big wail, then none. Wallah!  Now, we offered her milk as she might be somehow sleepy. She said yes but cried again. Sang her some lively songs but it didn’t work. Finally, I thought of Barney. That did it. :)

CJ is a certified Barney’s fan. The first DVD she saw was More Songs from Barney. She was 13 months old then. Jonjon and I were actually opposed to her watching TV at first especially on a early age but the household was excited to see CJ strut her stuff while watching Barney. She’s memorized the sequence of the whole 50-minute show. She knows what comes next after each sequence and now at 1 yr. 8 months, she’s humming and saying the last word of every phrase in the song. She has developed a lot because of the Barney stimulation but up to now, Jonjon frowns on seeing Barney on TV. He likes Elmo and the Sesame Street better.

Speaking of Barney, CJ today spoke of the words: "I love you!" She came to me while I was sitting on the dining table early this evening after wrapping up my stuff. Sitting on my lap, she said, "Ay lab yu", smiled and hugged me. And around 8pm when her daddy came home, she approached him with the same words with her sweet smile. She told these words to Lolo Popoy and Lola Ching as well. She spoke of it as if knowing its meaning. Spoke of it not merely as the start of the popular Barney song which she really loves but saying it from her heart.

Sob. :)

Series

Monday, September 11th, 2006

By another sroke of luck, I received a surprise text message this morning. It says, "CONGRATS! You have 3days/2nights HOTEL STAY at DAYS HOTEL, good for 2 adults/2 kids.. ABSOLUTELY FREE!…."

I called the landline number indicated in the text message.  And thank God, it’s not some scam. Not like those text scams spreading about. Yeah, I remember, filling up promotional coupons in the 17th Philippine Travel Mart, but as a matter of fact, I can’t remember which establishments were these and I didn’t expect that I would win.  May suwerte pala ako sa mga raffle draws.. Hehehe.. I  was able to talk to one of Days Hotel  staff and she told me that we need to claim the gift certificate within today or tomorrow.  Good thing, they have a branch in Ortigas. Jonjon’s office in Tektite is just near the Galleria Corporate Center.

The catch is we still need to draw which location we would stay. It would either be in Tagaytay, Subic, Batangas City, Quezon Province or Cebu. (Sana huwag Cebu! Hehehe). But wherever it would be, I just feel lucky. Jonjon and I were planning for an out of town trip for our anniversary celebration. I guess this is some sort of a blessing. :) Now, I am thinking, who to bring with us aside from CJ.

Ok, we’ll see. :) Still need to claim the vouchers.

Excited masyado.. :p

Without Further Ado

Monday, September 11th, 2006

I just finished sorting and collating the materials Jonjon and I got from the 17th Philippine Travel Mart (PTM) last Saturday, Sept. 9 in the Megatrade Hall . The event actually ran from Sept 8 to Sept 10. And it went simultaneously with Philippine Travel Exchange (PHITEX) 2006. I was able to run over the Phitex event a month ago by just randomly browsing through the internet. This is a good venue to market the beautiful places the Philippines has to offer, especially to the foreign market. Unfortunately, I set aside the idea of attending the event after seeing the participation fee.. hehehe.. It turned out however, by some twist of fate or some stroke of luck, I got to know about this Philippine Travel Mart just this Friday, Sept. 8.  I was even talking to my husband about this event (the Phitex) when we were going home actually forgetting about its date. Yun pala, while I was in the Megatrade Hall, the Phitex is also ongoing. But I guess, the higher being somehow knows that PTM is more appropriate for me at this point in time. Besides, it showcased the 16 regions of the country, the destinations and latest tourism products and services to consumers and
members of the travel trade industry, and information on travel
possibilities – where to go, what to see, where to stay what to do,
among other things. Something that I should have access too, especially that I am just starting with this travel biz.

The PTM had its theme: Wellness and Health Care Wellness and Health Care at Its Best. The reason being is that the government wishes to promote the Philippines as a country offering Medical Tourism.  In doing my research  with this topic, Thailand and India are the countries which are really aggressive in promoting medical tourism. We are still lagging behind. However, Jonjon told me that these Thai and Indian doctors used to study here in the Philippines in the 60’s. Well, I believe if medical tourism shall prosper in here in the country, our doctors and nurses need not go to other countries to work.

Since the start of this plan of mine to put up a travel agency, I haven’t made up my mind on which to concentrate on. Would it be on outbound travelling or inbound travelling? I guess, now I am making a choice. That is to focus more on the promotion of local destinations here in the Philippines. This is more nationalistic in a way. :) I guess what I will be doing will benefit our country. It is something concrete as opposed to all those bickering and just complaining.

Our country is such a beautiful place. And only a few people, appreciate its beauty. Before, I used to think of migrating too just like my relatives. Thanks to my husband, he enlightened me. Ever since then, I discovered that I still have that love in me for the country.. To make it a better place.. Each of us probably has their own ways of expressing such concern for the country. My mother-in-law is a dedicated educator who initiates change the current education system in the country. My husband is dedicated to his work as a software consultant and he continues to research and study to make  his craft better. I, on the other hand, thought of going to exporting also especially when I was in the shipping industry. I was thinking of exporting Bonuan Bangus to the world market. The lack of capital however, brought me to the tourism industry. Thanks to Prof. Ness Dizon who introduced me to this business through one of his seminars usually held at PUP.

Now, the question is, how far is this gonna take me or rather, how far do I want to go?

Well, I think I got to go now. I have some work to do. :)

 

 

 

The Road Less Travelled

Sunday, September 10th, 2006

Hmm.. What a way to start a blog with a poem in it. I have been wanting to start a blog but procrastination won’t allow me. I have made drafts of the things I wanted to talk about. Things like having all the time in the world now that I quit my job as a marketing assistant with a shipping company 2 months ago; the wonder of looking at my daughter with the innocence of her youth, yet she continues to unravel lifes’ mysteries bit by bit, grow and enjoy simple things in life; the power of the internet, one of which is Google earth. Really amazing! Time to pursue my dreams and stuff. And yes, cooking too. :)

Well, let me go back to where I planned to start this blog. Here is the poem of Robert Frost, "The Road Not Taken". Personally, in my opinion, the poem should have the title Road Less Travelled instead (a psychiatrist, M. Scott Peck, authored a book with this title, which I read too) because the phrase "not taken" comes to me as if no action has been done. Inaction for me is unacceptable. Inaction is a sign of mediocrity because of not choosing to move forward. Maintaining the status quo when you know you can do something is weak.

Another irony with this poem choice is that I am venturing into the travel industry and to not choose a road or a trip or a journey is odd. The world has a lot to offer and to choose not to walk is to stop living.

But the question that bugs me now is "Am I making the right choice? Am I doing the right thing?"
Coz at this point in time, I am asking myself, and I am sort of comparing myself, my achievements, with the people whom I have known before. Sometimes, I am not sure if I am happy with what I am in right now, especially with my career. I don’t know. I should not be asking these questions nor be doing this. I just have to believe… that maybe I am taking a different path as they choose to do.

The Road Not Taken
Robert Frost

  Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
  And sorry I could not travel both
  And be one traveler, long I stood
  And looked down one as far as I could
  To where it bent in the undergrowth.

  Then took the other, as just as fair,
  And having perhaps the better claim,
  Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
  Though as for that the passing there
  Had worn them really about the same.

  And both that morning equally lay
  In leaves no step had trodden black.
  Oh, I kept the first for another day!
  Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
  I doubted if I should ever come back.

  I shall be telling this with a sigh
  Somewhere ages and ages hence:
  Two roads diverged in a wood, and I–
  I took the one less traveled by,
  And that has made all the difference